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  • The LoveStyle Profile will help you understand your particular LoveStyle, and how (and why) you interact with your partner the way you do.

    You’ll receive a free report and explanation by email as soon as you complete the 5-minute survey.

    Your answers will remain confidential. Your contact information will never be shared with anyone, ever.

    You'll also receive our periodic "LoveStyles Newsletter," filled with practical information to help your relationship thrive. You can unsubscribe anytime, of course.

 

The LoveStyle™ Profile

    How Secure Are You In Your Relationship?

  • In every relationship, there is a wide spectrum of feelings that stretch from completely secure on one end to completely insecure on the other. You've probably experienced a wide variety of feelings along this spectrum in each of your past relationships.

    Feelings can change rapidly, especially when you get triggered, or when you and your partner spark a cycle of escalated upset. Your moods and feelings change, and so do the circumstances that can shift feelings from one side of this spectrum to the other.

    There are four primary LoveStyles: one called Secure and three categories of Insecure. This section will identify where you are, on average, within the spectrum that ranges from the most secure to the most insecure.

    Mark your answers anywhere along the line.

    Answer these questions in the context of “usually” or “most of the time" in your current relationship. Since relationships can change over time, your answers should reflect the past year.

    If you're not currently in a relationship, answer the questions with your most recent partner(s) in mind.

    You'll receive your LoveStyle Report as soon as you complete the Profile.

    Note: When you complete the Profile, please be patient when you click the "Submit" button, and wait for the Thank You page to appear. If you click away too quickly, your Report results may be inaccurate.


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  • The 3 Insecure LoveStyles™

  • If you don't have the Secure LoveStyle, you have one of the other three, which are collectively called Insecure LoveStyles.

    This section identifies which of the three you have: 1) Insecure-Anxious, 2) Insecure-Avoidant, or 3) Insecure-Traumatic. Many people have more than one, and we call this the Hybrid LoveStyle™.

    Since feelings change all the time, answer each question in the context of “usually” or “most of the time.”
  • Insecure-Anxious LoveStyle™

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  • Insecure-Avoidant LoveStyle™

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  • Insecure-Traumatic LoveStyle™

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