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We want more sex, and better sex. It’s a universal desire, driven by ancient brain circuits that drive procreation, and our primitive needs to be held, seen, and loved. We…

Do you and your partner trigger each other into reactive patterns? Some couples slip easily into frustrating arguments. Others end up in nasty fights. Many couples turn away from each…

Why do men disappear when you really need to connect with them? This question has plagued women throughout history. One of our clients, Maria, said it this way: “We love  each…

If narcissism were a disease, it would be considered a pandemic. Our culture not only condones selfishness, but celebrates it as a virtue. Materialism, driven by corporate interests and advertising,…

I was greeted this morning by a love note from my beloved.  He had woken up, watched me sleep, and then wrote an essay about love.  He read it to…

I admit it: I am a recovering narcissist. Much of my life energy was spent in pursuit of what I wanted, what I needed, and what I thought was best….

I woke up in bed, opened my eyes, and turned to look at my partner, Carista. She was still sleeping, one arm over her eyes, breathing softly.  I felt my…